{"id":1126,"date":"2020-08-24T14:56:59","date_gmt":"2020-08-24T13:56:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.stothmarta.com\/hu\/?p=1126"},"modified":"2020-10-21T15:15:44","modified_gmt":"2020-10-21T14:15:44","slug":"szivesebben-baratkozom-szep-emberekkel-vajon-mi-lehet-az-oka","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stothmarta.com\/hu\/szivesebben-baratkozom-szep-emberekkel-vajon-mi-lehet-az-oka\/","title":{"rendered":"“Sz\u00edvesebben bar\u00e1tkozom sz\u00e9p emberekkel” – Vajon mi lehet az oka?"},"content":{"rendered":"[vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” column_margin=”default” equal_height=”yes” content_placement=”middle” column_direction=”default” column_direction_tablet=”default” column_direction_phone=”default” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” row_border_radius=”none” row_border_radius_applies=”bg” overlay_strength=”0.3″ gradient_direction=”left_to_right” shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none” shape_type=””][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”3\/4″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column_text]B\u00e1r a k\u00fcls\u0151s\u00e9gek sosem \u00e9lveznek priorit\u00e1st az emberi kapcsolatokban, van, akin\u00e9l m\u00e9gis rengeteget sz\u00e1m\u00edt. Egy v\u00e9letlen besz\u00e9lget\u00e9s alapj\u00e1n a szak\u00e9rt\u0151 el\u00e1rulja, mi\u00e9rt van, hogy n\u00e9ha a kin\u00e9zet is d\u00f6nt\u0151 a bar\u00e1tkoz\u00e1sn\u00e1l.<\/strong>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/4″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][image_with_animation image_url=”226″ animation=”None” hover_animation=”none” alignment=”center” border_radius=”none” box_shadow=”none” image_loading=”default” max_width=”100%” max_width_mobile=”default”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” column_margin=”default” column_direction=”default” column_direction_tablet=”default” column_direction_phone=”default” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” row_border_radius=”none” row_border_radius_applies=”bg” overlay_strength=”0.3″ gradient_direction=”left_to_right” shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column_text]”Durva, de valami\u00e9rt musz\u00e1j, hogy j\u00f3 csajok vegyenek k\u00f6r\u00fcl” – ez a mondat ak\u00e1r egy Charlie Sheen filmben is elhangozhatott volna, de egy el\u00e9g fancy k\u00e1v\u00e9z\u00f3 egyik asztal\u00e1n\u00e1l t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt meg, r\u00e1asul nem egy n\u0151cs\u00e1b\u00e1sz, hanem egy dekorat\u00edv, h\u00faszas \u00e9vei elej\u00e9n j\u00e1r\u00f3 l\u00e1ny mondta. Egy kicsit k\u00f6zelebb h\u00faztam a sz\u00e9kemet, hogy az okfejt\u00e9st v\u00e9gighallgathassam.<\/p>\n

A fiatal n\u0151 szerencs\u00e9re nem hagyta ennyiben a dolgot, \u00e9s igencsak r\u00e9szletesen megosztotta a bar\u00e1tn\u0151j\u00e9vel, hogy n\u00e1la nem csak a Tinderen fontos a j\u00f3 kin\u00e9zet, hanem a bar\u00e1tkoz\u00e1s ter\u00e9n is.[\/vc_column_text][nectar_single_testimonial testimonial_style=”basic” quote=”Gondolj bele, ha cs\u00fanya l\u00e1nyokkal bar\u00e1tkozom, senki nem figyel fel r\u00e1m sem, mert egynek gondolnak k\u00f6z\u00fcl\u00fck. Maximum a cheerleader-effekt j\u00e1tszik, azaz szebbnek t\u0171n\u00fcnk csapatban, de ha megbomlik az egys\u00e9g, csak 4-5 cs\u00fany\u00e1cska l\u00e1ny lesz\u00fcnk k\u00fcl\u00f6n-k\u00fcl\u00f6n. Ha viszont sz\u00e9p csajok t\u00e1rsas\u00e1g\u00e1ban j\u00e1runk el, akkor mind topon vagyunk, \u00e9s akkor sokkal megnyer\u0151bbek vagyunk egy\u00fctt, de k\u00fcl\u00f6n sem v\u00e9szes a helyzet”][vc_column_text]- elemezte a l\u00e1ny.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” column_margin=”default” column_direction=”default” column_direction_tablet=”default” column_direction_phone=”default” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” row_border_radius=”none” row_border_radius_applies=”bg” overlay_strength=”0.3″ gradient_direction=”left_to_right” shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][nectar_single_testimonial testimonial_style=”basic” quote=”Mindenkinek nagyobb teret adunk \u00edgy az ismerked\u00e9sre meg arra is, hogy t\u00f6bben \u00e9szrevegyenek minket. Plusz gondolj bele abba is, ha nem igaz\u00e1n sz\u00e9p \u00e9s ig\u00e9nyes csajokkal venn\u00e9m k\u00f6r\u00fcl magam, mennyire tudn\u00e1m nekik \u0151szint\u00e9n azt mondani, hogy persze, j\u00f3l n\u00e9zel ki? Egy id\u0151 ut\u00e1n lehet, hogy \u00e9n is magasr\u00f3l tenn\u00e9k az \u00e1polts\u00e1gra, vagy az alakomra. Egyszer\u0171en nem tudn\u00e9k \u0151szinte lenni vel\u00fck, ha kin\u00e9zetr\u0151l van sz\u00f3.”][vc_column_text]- fejtette ki m\u00e9g jobban.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” column_margin=”default” column_direction=”default” column_direction_tablet=”default” column_direction_phone=”default” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” row_border_radius=”none” row_border_radius_applies=”bg” overlay_strength=”0.3″ gradient_direction=”left_to_right” shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_tablet=”inherit” column_padding_phone=”inherit” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” column_link_target=”_self” gradient_direction=”left_to_right” overlay_strength=”0.3″ width=”1\/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column_text]\n

T\u00f6bb sem kellett, ezt a besz\u00e9lget\u00e9st hallva megk\u00e9rdeztem S. T\u00f3th M\u00e1rt\u00e1t<\/a>, life-business coach, NLP tr\u00e9ner, J\u00f3L\u00e9t mentort, hogy vajon szakmai szemmel mi a magyar\u00e1zat erre a jelens\u00e9gre, amit a l\u00e1ny felvetett.<\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]A szak\u00e9rt\u0151, S. T\u00f3th M\u00e1rta v\u00e1lasza<\/strong><\/p>\n

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